Why Do Men Cheat At All?
My sister, Men would be men. See men can go every extent for you but that does not stop them from cheating. It is not your hundred and one percent of love that stops a man from cheating kraa.
They can tell you all the sweetest things in the world, pamper, care, and all that but still cheat behind your back, so you must understand that it is their nature. However, it is not every man who cheats, we have very noble, disciplined, and God-fearing men who do not cheat but they are scarce because of the generation we are in now.
Now, no man would wish to do something for a lady no matter the extent the lady loves him. If you want to follow men, then my sister, you would never get into a relationship more or less get married.
People think or believe that girls are just confused but they are not the only ones. Guys, are basically confused about everything. They will take months to impress a lady, and once the girl is actually impressed, some guys find the “spark” gone.
Moving on, there are many factors and reasons men cheat, I can’t state all, however, I would be sharing with you some of these excuses:
It would interest you to know that men love advantage. Men can discover for Africa, they just love to explore, you can see him with the biggest or hottest curvy woman in the world but if he would cheat, he would cheat. Most often we don’t give the men the chance to explain because we know it would be lies upon lies.
They are born to admire, besides women were born for the sake of men so they love to explore, the only men who seem not to cheat are men who fear the Lord, men who are disciplined and love their wives unconditionally, men who tend to worship the Lord in truth and Spirit.
Some men cheat out of lust for women, they just can’t get women out of their minds. Like once they see beauty they are attracted to it. Some men lust after anything in skirt, as long as it is a skirt, then their mood changes. These men fail to control their s3xual desires, their libido
You would not believe this! Men cheat because their wives or girlfriends nag a lot. It might sound weird but that is the truth. Having a nagging wife/girlfriend is no different from the absence of peace and joy.
The interesting thing about these men who cheat is, anytime they are caught in action, they tend to find themselves singing the same lines as their fellow cheating men. Today this, tomorrow that, and it never ends there.
Here are some of the excuses, guys give for cheating:
It was the devil
Men would always blame the devil for cheating. ‘The devil used me, I don’t know what happened or happening, It was no devil, it was you all by yourself. You planned it, executed it, and got the pleasure all by yourself. Am soo sure that, the devil might even get surprised at some excuses given in its name? I would never hurt you, I don’t know what happened, I would never hurt you, trust me”
This is my first time
Even if truly it was your first time, you have been caught and you say is your first time. I personally think men should stop these excuses. No culprit would apologize and own up to an offence or wrong, they all have first times. When a guy says words like ‘please’ and ‘sorry’, it is likely that they really mean it.
A guy asking for the last chance or another chance is a rare situation, but when he does that, it clearly means he wants you. He wants the relationship to work out. He definitely has made a mistake. But what can be better than your husband or boyfriend agreeing and accepting his fault and wanting to change it? I personally think this particular man should be given a chance. But here too there is a trick. Do not give in immediately. You know your man well so you will know that he is genuinely sorry by looking into his eyes.
You’re the real one
Another classic excuse men like to drop is about how other girls are just to bide time and how you are the real one, the only one. It’s probably just another one of the numerous lies and excuses but as always you’re probably going to fall for it again. They say things like “she is my sister, she was helping me, I don’t even know her, I was just trying to help her.” One of the weirdest and yuckiest yet most famous excuses given by cheating men.
She was teaching me some new moves for you
You feel confused as what to say next. You feel like laughing at the stupidity of your own choice. Seriously guys? This is the second best thing you can say or use as an excuse. If she can catch you cheating on her, then she is smart enough not to believe these stupid excuses. Please think of a better excuse next time. Because this will only lead to your downfall and you might end up getting slapped, if not because of cheating on her, then at least for this excuse.
If your guy really wanted some gift suggestion, why would he call up another girl? Doesn’t he know you well enough to know what will be the perfect buy for you? Or even if he doesn’t, he can just give a call and ask for gift suggestion from his so-called friend. Why need to go for a movie or to some parks? Think girls, think.
You don’t give me time/ I owe you no explanation
This is a smart move. It is human tendency to put the blame on others when a person knows he is wrong. Guys are no different. They will try to push the blame on you, saying that you do not give time to the relationship, or how busy you are with your work or studies, etc. Do not buy it. Work, studies, or whatever it is, comes first any day. If you are working to have a safe and secure future, or if you are getting educated, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. OR even if you are giving more time to your friends and family, it is fine.
She was trying to seduce me
If she was trying to seduce you guy, then why was your guy on top of her? Or why did he just simply not walk away from there? Or is your guy such a freak that he cannot control himself and gets excited by the mere presence of a girl? Girls, if your guy uses this as an excuse, do not forget to backfire at them. Ask him why would he get seduced at all if he was so much in love with you?