Things That Easily Put Ladies Off
Men see women and have their ‘HEARTS GO’ gaga over them. If their feelings get reciprocated, love may begin to develop.
Ladies also go through indecisive battles from the guy to date, what to wear, what to eat, where to have dinner, the list goes on and on. Now there are quite a number of things about men that put ladies off. These things are under the judgement of the multiple senses of ladies.
LACK OF CONFIDENCE
Firstly, a man should have the confidence to approach a lady to talk to her if he finds her attractive or has developed an interest in her. Some men are not able to walk up to a lady to talk to her, they only are able to watch and admire the lady from afar till the lady is out of sight. Others get to the lady and don’t know what exactly to say and end up stammering. Walking up to a lady can be very difficult, be it that you don’t know how the lady would react to your approach. Most men don’t approach women because of this reason or they might have had previous bad experience with a different lady. Even if she doesn’t give you a positive response, guess what! You have levelled up your courage metre and boosted your confidence and that is plus for you. Don’t forget, Men learn the hard way.
Firstly a man should dress and smell nice, as a man your appearance alone should be able to attract ladies. Ladies like to show off their men, a lady will neither show off a man with a bad fashion sense nor a man with body odour. Even if she can contain it, she would keep you under a rock and this means she will let go of you soon. But Ladies, try as much as possible to approach him about it. Men, don’t just wear anything because you think its wearable and also know what to wear for the right occasion to avoid overdressing and underdressing.
As much as you look and smell nice, your communication skills must be on point. Know how to talk, when to talk and what to say. Your mannerism when talking should be appealing to the eyes. Mostly, men fail in communication due to their diction. Eliminate bragging when talking and don’t exaggerate, let your achievements show by themselves. Announcing achievements make you look more like a braggart. Ladies like to laugh and enjoy conversations but you should know when they want it or not. A joke at the wrong time is going to bring anger instead of laughter. You must be confident in communication and your communication should be lively. So much as ladies like to hear their men talk, the men should also listen to their ladies when the need arises.
Adding this as a bonus, men should know how to compose themselves in public places such as cinemas, eateries etc. no matter how extrovert you are you should make your lady comfortable when she is around in public.
When you are able to practise this well enough, there is this assurance that ladies will like to be with you or around you.