The Perfect Place For An Unforgettable Experience On Your First Date
I get guys ask me questions like, where can i take a lady out on our first date, where do you think would be the best venue, where would be the appropriate place to have her express and tell me more about herself?
All these questions have helped in making their first dates a success and decided to share them with you.
So you’ve connected with someone and you’re really excited because she has said yes to the first date. Great! But it does not end there.
Choosing the right venue for your first date is as important as how far we wish to go with the person. Who you date/marry is as important as why you marry date#AVMB.
Your first date is the initial meeting between you and the lady, where both of you make the effort to ask about yourselves to know if you can be together in a relationship, this means that where you meet plays a major role in making this a success.
I would be sharing with you ideas for your first date no matter the kind of taste you may have.
There are a number of factors that go into choosing the perfect venue for a date. The location, atmosphere, affordability, availability, recommendations, e.t.c need to be considered on your first date. People may tell you it doesn’t and it’s all about who you’re with but here in Ghana, it is a different thing altogether besides, the first impression you create counts a lot.
Having several options up your sleeve is a great way to keep your date interesting. It gives your date the notion that you’re knowledgeable however if your date doesn’t seem overly thrilled with your first choice, move onto the next.
Movies, ball games, concerts, and other crowded events do not provide environments conducive to sparking unique chemistry. Even if you are a sports fan or movie buff, consider investing in a first date that offers a chance to bond within an environment of exclusivity, before hitting the theater or ballpark on a second or third.
A casual restaurant, or cafe, or mall allows you to let your guard down without feeling the pressure, but it can confuse a date with the “friend-zone” path although a club allows you to go wild and have a great dance, it doesn’t exactly scream commitment.
Spend time to look at online reviews on eateries, restaurants, or cafes. Taking time to read the reviews rather than just look at stars however if you think this would be too much you can suggest taking a stroll with her on her street or at the beach.
Taking a stroll with her in her neighbourhood must make her feel secured since it is the first she is stepping out with you and this would give you the chance to get to know her more.
If she happens to be a more outing type, I know of lots of pubs who have friday live bands like Yenkodi in East Legon, the Republic live band at Osu and the 37 military live band behind Maxmart so you can try out these places for some nice time with her while enjoying the music.
If you plan to grab food while you’re on your date, consider what options are available. If you know your date is a vegetarian or lover of spicy food, choose rightly however if you have no idea what your date likes? Make sure to do your research prior to ensure your venue has a well-rounded menu.
You can book ahead for your restaurant you may be planning to eat in. Book ahead, as not only will this prevent you from being turned away, it will show you are assertive and have initiative.
A unique, independent venue adds extra appeal to a first date and will show you are taking the date seriously. Consider asking your date for their favourite place to go and while we don’t suggest going there, it will give you a good idea of what they like.
Many great first dates do not end with fireworks, but with friendship.