Believe It Or Not. Faithful Men Do Exist
Today, it’s normal for a lady to question her partner’s loyalty. Society and the media have positioned our minds to suspect men even when there is no need to.
Believe me, when I tell you, there are faithful men who go any extent to remain loyal to their women. These men are scarce to come by however, any lady who finds herself lucky enough to have come by such should hold on to him dearly.
With men with the qualities below, worrying your head over them just destroys your relationship.
- He loves you and he would never do anything to hurt you.
He would never cheat on you because he loves you more than anyone on the face of this earth. For one, no other person could ever satisfy him the way that you do. And two, he would never do anything that would hurt you. He loves you too much to ever betray you or feel like you are a second-class lover. He would always make sure that you know that you are the most important person in the world to him. And he will prove that to you by actually committing to you and you alone.
2. He will not want to risk ending up alone without you.
If he is a codependent kind of person, then he is probably never going to cheat on you. He knows that you would have no trouble leaving him in a heartbeat if you ever found out that he was cheating on you. Sometimes, fear can also serve as a perfect deterrent for lustful male partners. He would be absolutely devastated and helpless without you, and so that’s why he would never do anything to rock the boat. He would never consent to be unfaithful if it meant he would risk losing you in the process.
3. He is a morally upright and principled person.
They are the men who believe in doing the right thing at all times regardless if it’s inconvenient to them or not. This is why you can always trust him to never cheat on you. He believes that the act of cheating is categorically wrong in itself and he would never subject himself to such moral impurity. He doesn’t care about how either of you is going to feel about cheating because he knows that the action in itself is unacceptable. Regardless of the consequences, he’s never going to engage in extramarital affairs because he understands that it’s just wrong.
4. He is worried about the effects that his cheating escapades would have on his children.
If you are married and you already have children, then that is another perfect reason why you shouldn’t worry about him acting unfaithful to you. A lot of men these days are just better fathers than the dads of before. They are more empathetic, sensitive, and more emotional. They are softer and they would be more mindful of how their actions or words may impact the lives of their children. That’s why the fact that you have kids can serve as an effective deterrent for your spouse to engage in extramarital affairs. He wouldn’t want his children to see their dad as a morally despicable human being who betrayed mommy.
5. He doesn’t want to bring another person into an already tumultuous situation.
Even if things aren’t going as nicely as you’d hope it would in your relationship, there is still a reason for you to believe that he would never cheat on you. If he were a genuinely nice guy, he wouldn’t want to bring any other person in as collateral damage to your rocky relationship. He knows that things aren’t exactly ideal for you guys right now and so he wouldn’t want to involve any unnecessary casualties should the two of you implode on yourselves. He is too kind and thoughtful of others to do so.
Kudos to you if you’ve managed to grab a faithful and loyal guy. It’s rare to find such men who hold on to their core values.