Be Your Own Woman By Speaking Or Walking out- Eshun Inspires
For some days now, Ghanaian singer, Ethel Esi Eshun popularly known as Queen eShun has been making waves in the media for some days after she confidently opened up on matters concerning her relationship and ordeals she went through.
Lots of people would be quick to point fingers at her, criticizing her and all but they forget what similar situation they probably found themselves in. It can be true Eshun could have been smarter to come out of the torture her ex-fiancé, Stephen Mensah put her through but the truth is, she must be commended for her boldness and strength to still stand and do music despite it all.
As she stated in her interview with Zionfelix, lots of people find themselves in this torture which can be described as emotional blackmail but does not utter a word because of their fear of losing everything and returning to their zero states. But the truth is every woman has the power to stand on her own once she decides to especially when she is not married to her partner.
We believe Eshun boldly stepping out of this, did not only make her confident but made her better and identified her true self.
How many of us ladies, can boldly depend on GOD, His word, our Spiritual Heads, and ourselves to come out greater. See lots of carnal men are out there dressed up in nice outfits occupying high positions but have nothing to offer just torture and pain. For how long would we have our freedom infringed on by such men.
Since Eshun’s situation is the current talk in Ghana, why don’t we follow the move she has begun to step out of the bondage men are putting us in, to boldly build our brands, companies, and ourselves to be that inspiration to others?
I am not promoting disrespect towards our men but I am speaking against men who have chosen to abuse ladies. Whether you agree to this or not, every lady needs a Man of GOD you have been called to, to know GOD and knowing GOD means identifying the best in you.
With this as you draw closer to GOD and trust in HIM, you’d realize that once you meet the right man, it won’t be difficult submitting to the right man.
Yes, all is said and done, however, there is nowhere I can leave our married women in this situation hanging. If you happen to be married to such a person then my sister please do not be discouraged, take it upon yourself to build a relationship with yourself.
No lady deserves to be abused, keep that in mind. If it gets out of hand seek for psychological advice and if possible step out of the marriage to have your peace.
It is better to be single than to be tortured, if you are yet to marry this kind of man too, my sister even if it is a minute to your wedding day, be bold to cancel it your life matters.
As Eshun has taken the bold step and courage to come out of her toxic relationship, you can also be an Eshun by taking the bold step today.